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Christmas and then New Year is coming up … for many a time of ‘terror’ for Christmas parties, and then “the resolutions” (not something I’ve ever been a fan of – start where you are, don’t wait for a random date in the calendar). I’ve only ever got involved in formal dieting once… and that was Slimming World in 2006 … originally, I lost 3 stone (though I was training for a 10k at the same time) … but then … this picture came too true as I think it messed up my head more than it helped:


beyond-chocTrue, I did end up with a chest infection/post-viral fatigue which didn’t help with my otherwise quite busy exercise habit, but by 2009, when I first came across Beyond Chocolate, I seemed to be putting on a stone every six months. I can’t tell you what I weighed a year after I first started ‘experimenting’ with Beyond Chocolate as I threw away scales, but I can tell you I am still using some of the same clothes from 2010!

The 10 basic ‘Beyond Chocolate’ principles are (in my translation):

  1. ‘Tune in’ and become aware of what your body wants/needs, and what else might be triggering a craving for food.
  2. Eat when you are hungry – rather than when the clock says that you should.
  3. Eat what you want – there’s no such things as ‘good’ and ‘bad’ foods, and ‘willpower’ just doesn’t work – so feel empowered to make choices instead.
  4. Experience that you are eating – put it on a plate rather than grazing or multi-tasking with the TV.
  5. Notice when you’ve had enough (not stuffed full, but satisfied) and stop. You can have more later, if you want…
  6. Enjoy food! It’s not a minefield, a danger zone, or a ‘naughty treat’…
  7. You don’t have to love your body, but you need to own it, acknowledge that it’s part of you.
  8. Move! Not painful exercise sessions, but enjoyable movement – whatever works for you!
  9. Make ‘self-care’ a priority – women so often put themselves last, and find that food is the only way to treat themselves. BC also has an online support system.
  10. ‘Be your own guru’ – you know yourself best – listen, explore and experiment – find what works for you!

and what I love about them is that it’s not a set of rules that someone else has written – it’s all about experimenting to find out what works for you – and there’s always a new way to experiment! Sophie’s words echo in my head “Try something once (rather than “giving up forever”), and if it works, try it again – it may well become a habit.”

Don’t get me wrong, I’d love my body to be smaller, for all kinds of reasons – not least that our culture surrounds us with images of women with ‘perfect (photoshopped) bodies’, and that some of the physical things I want to do would be easier, but Beyond Chocolate has influenced my life in so many other ways – let me see if I can think of some that are ‘suitable for sharing’ (yes, one does not need to share everything – but diet/weight is one of those things people only typically talk about whilst on it/reached goal weight!) – this is written on the fly:

I hope you’ll decide that the ‘New Year Diet’ is not for you, and even just writing this has reminded me of some things I want to try … Go and find out what’s on offer at Beyond Chocolate – a lot of support for free (also paid courses)!

2 Responses

  1. Brilliant article. I totally see myself in this. I’m eating less, but enjoying it more these days and have lost a good bit of the weight I put on ‘comfort eating’. Would love some more tips on sleep. That’s something I battle with constantly.

    1. Mostly trying to get myself into more ‘habits’ so I don’t have to think as much at night, so not still faced with a to-do list at night, reading more paper-books, but not getting stressed if I decide to put iPlayer on, having days like this weekend where I’ve hardly been awake! Haven’t got it quite sussed – but more of a priority!

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